Isms: Views on Life in Rural America

Last week, I watched ESPN E60: No Place Like Nebraska. It wove several storylines into one, showing why Husker volleyball continues to be the program to emulate.

The show included snippets of the program’s humble beginnings, a fair amount about the attendance record at volleyball day and a glimpse into Harper Murray’s successes on the court and downfalls outside of Devaney.

It’s a lot to wrap into a 50-minute video. Maybe too much. One storyline needed more. If you’re a volleyball enthusiast - heck, every single person - you should read Elizabeth Merrill’s story about Murray’s focus on healing. The ESPN senior writer takes a deep dive into Murray’s personal life and struggles she faced after the team lost the national championship match to Texas.

After proclaiming the Huskers we’re going to win three natty’s in the next three years during the post-game show, Murray began being attacked on social media. According to Merrill’s reporting, some people told her she “should learn how to pass before she talked smack.” Some commenters told her “to kill herself.”

Those comments led to what some may consider as the player’s downfall. No doubt, she faced multiple struggles during the spring 2024 semester, including driving under the influence and shoplifting incidents and charges.

The article explains how Murray entered therapy and is learning how to deal with anxiety and depression. I commend Murray for recognizing there is no shame in receiving help. I commend her for taking life day by day, one step at a time. And, I commend her for finally realizing that social media trolls do not - and should not - define her as a person and player.

To those who sent those messages, puffing their chests while hiding behind a screen and keyboard, shame on you. Would you say those things outloud? Would you say them to your daughter or sister or best friend?

Luckily, Murray’s story continues. She’s rebuilding trust with her fellow players and coaches and redefining her love of volleyball. She’s caring for herself, on her terms, too. Her story could have had a very different ending. Thankfully, it seems to be one of optimism, a story about recognizing the effects of stress and the need for mental health awareness.