Cross-state exchanges build bonds between North Omaha and southwest Nebraska

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The roughly 370 miles between North Omaha and the heart of southwest Nebraska aren’t slowing a group of Nebraskans from forging relationships that they hope will serve as a model for bridging the gulf between rural and urban communities.

In less than a year, residents from either end of that span have crossed the state to experience how the other side lives – from mock cattle auctions in Ogallala to a Juneteenth parade on Omaha’s North 24th Street. Momentum is gathering, and they have no plans to stop.

“We didn’t get into this problem overnight and we’re not going to get out of it overnight,” said McCook-area farmer Dale Dueland, one of the western Nebraskans participating in the exchange. “We’ve got to be committed to the long haul.”

This endeavor’s roots date to 2020, when longtime Omaha activist Preston Love Jr. wrote an open letter to rural Nebraska, encouraging residents across the state to put aside division and embrace one another. The fates of urban and rural Nebraska are inextricably linked, he argued, so why not focus on building a bright future together?

The letter resonated with Nebraska Community Foundation President and CEO Jeff Yost. The two opened a dialogue that ultimately led to the idea of an exchange.

It began with two busloads of folks from rural Nebraska traveling to North Omaha in November 2022. After lunch at Big Mama’s Kitchen, Love led a driving tour of the community.

The trip inspired volunteers out west to return the favor. In April, they hosted a two-day tour for a contingent of North Omahans including Love and other community leaders.

The first stop: McCook and the famed Sehnert’s Bakery, where they were greeted by members of the local community foundation affiliate. After breaking into groups, they toured McCook, including the historical homes of George Norris and Ben Nelson.

From there they headed to Imperial. Dueland narrated the jaunt northwest on Highway 6 with information about agriculture, farmers cooperatives and water management.

“We learned a lot today,” Love said later at dinner. “A lot about your community, a lot about your people, a lot about the work that you do and how important that little center pivot is to your survival. We learned that, we go home with that and we'll take that message back. It’s a bridge, if you will.”

There is certainly division to bridge.

Nearly 60% of rural residents surveyed by the Pew Research Center in 2018 said their values don’t align with those living in urban areas. More than half of city dwellers (53%) said the same about rural residents. Both groups said the other looked down on or misunderstood them.

Polling closer to home has identified differences.

Among rural Nebraskans, 66% described their community’s political views on social issues as conservative, compared to 48% in metro areas, according to the 2021 Nebraska Rural Poll conducted by the University of Nebraska-Lincoln.

But there are commonalities.

Similar percentages of rural and urban Nebraskans expressed positive views of their jobs, their friends, their families, their personal safety and their communities, according to the UNL poll.

The national Pew survey found residents in both types of communities worry about drug addiction, availability of affordable housing, availability of jobs and infrastructure, among other issues. Both groups want a good place to raise children, a strong sense of community and access to recreation.

“Like every town and community in Nebraska, we're loaded with people with inspiration, with hope, with prospects of having a good life,” said Imperial farmer and local historian Charley Colton during dinner. “Everyone in this room wants the best for their community.”

Outside of Imperial, the North Omaha tour bus pulled into the Wine Glass Ranch. Logan and Brianna Pribbeno are the fifth generation to steward the land.

Brianna grew up in southern California and remembers thinking the rift between northern and southern California was silly. When she moved to Nebraska with Logan, she didn’t think she would encounter that kind of divide again. She’s hoping efforts like the bus tour can close the chasm.

“I experienced very quickly that western and eastern Nebraska are very divided places,” Brianna said. “There are a lot of misconceptions about both sides of the state and how we’re each experiencing life. I want both sides of the state to come together. … Let's find that common ground.”

The tour’s final leg included a mock auction at Ogallala Livestock Auction Market and a bus tour of Ogallala landmarks.

As they headed back east on Interstate 80, driver D. Kevin Williams looked into the rear-view mirror and remarked on the horizon illuminated in a wash of red, orange, and pink. “We left them a beautiful sunset.”

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The visitors from McCook, Imperial and Ogallala arrived in North Omaha the Friday before Juneteenth.

They gathered at Mt. Moriah Baptist Church, just north of 24th and Lake streets to learn about the highest highs and lowest lows of North Omaha history. The trip marked the latest exchange in a flourishing connection.

“It was more like a family reunion, and we just didn’t have enough time,” said Lorraine Jackson, president of Omaha’s National Council of Negro Women chapter. “We wanted more time.”

The group shared laughs and stories Friday evening over a meal prepared by the NCNW chapter. They also reflected on pain and hardship.

That afternoon, the contingent watched as the City of Omaha renamed a portion of 21st Street near Logan Fontenelle Park in remembrance of Vivian Strong, a 14-year-old girl killed by an Omaha police officer in 1969. The killing left deep wounds in the community, setting off unrest that resulted in the destruction and closure of local businesses, many of which never recovered.

“Vivian Strong is part of our community’s pain, and we opened up the door and welcomed you into that side,” Love said. “Not just the Juneteenth-celebration side, but the pain. It made us closer to you because you now have seen that side. The pain of our family.”

The visitors and hosts returned to the church the next morning. After breakfast, they lined up along 24th Street to watch the Juneteenth celebration. Love frequently ventured into the parade route, bringing back North Omaha leaders to introduce to his guests.

A week after the Omaha visit, the group reconvened for a virtual debrief. Those from out west expressed gratitude toward their Omaha hosts.

Love said people he’s talked to in his community were impressed by the initiative and see value in the burgeoning connections.

“Now that it’s on the table, it is being talked about,” he said.

Both groups say they aren’t ignorant of the difficult task ahead of them, but they are steadfast in their dedication to bringing historically distant Nebraskans together.

For Reverend T. Michael Williams of Mt. Moriah, creating stronger connections and vibrant communities for future generations remains the goal.

“We’re just setting the table,” he said. “Lord willing, they’ll be able to eat from it.”